Monday, May 10, 2010

Lessons from a Master of Zen

When facing a single tree, if you look at a
single one of its red leaves, you will not see
all the others. When the eye is not set on
any one leaf, and you face the tree with
nothing at all in mind, any number of leaves
are visible to the eye without limit. But if a
single leaf holds the eye, it will be as if the
remaining leaves were not there.

~ The Unfettered Mind, Takuan Sōhō (沢庵 宗彭, 1573–1645)

Reworded and simplified, by mangaka Takehiko Inoue:
Preoccupied with a single leaf... you won't see the tree. Preoccupied with a single tree... you'll miss the entire forest.  See everything in its entirety...effortlessly... That is what it means... to truly see.            

  ~Takuan Soho, (沢庵 宗彭, 1573–1645)

Do not stand at my grave and weep












Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I do not die.

~Mary Elizabeth Frye

200 Pound Beauty - A film worth watching

I cried.  I'll admit it.  But not a sad, painful type of crying - more of a gentle, touched by empathy type of tears.
This movie is ridiculous.  The notion someone could survive such a nonsensical procedure is, in itself, fiction. 
But, it works.  It works so well, on so many levels:  comedy, slice of life, drama. 

It was a real pleasure to watch.  And I was able to actually sit through it two more times after viewing it once already.
Yes, I still teared up the second and third time around.  The ost song is actually quite touching too.
It also made me realize how superficial society is and how Korea, in particular, can be a horrible place for those who are deemed social misfits, either by physical difference or mental or emotional difference.

This movie is available for online viewing/streaming through www.mysoju.com.
Or, you can go to stagevu.com to stream in divx quality.

One person wrote on the imdb.com forums:
I can't even imagine how Hollywood would mess this beautiful movie up - stick in famous people ; change a story line here and there - All the Heart will be ripped out of the movie, and it will bomb. It will be some cute-sy comedy that will make a small bleep on the movie radar, and then fade out into anonymity. The only people that will remember it are fat girls that liked the fact that the lead actor missed the old Hannah.

I loved this movie. It made me cry (And I don't admit that for any movie) I think they should re-release it to an American Audience, as is, as an indie movie, or foreign flick, or whatever they call it.

This Movie has heart.


I can't agree more.  I recommend it.

Odd behaviour @ the gym

Did some heavy bag work this weekend at my gym.  Actually, it wasn't really MY gym since this place was all the way up in Richmond Hill.  I had no choice but to go there because my gym's punching bag broke off the stem and was grounded with no immediate date for repair.

I don't particularly like this gym for several reasons:  1) it's in the basement - no window/natural light; 2) the freaking punching bag is in the middle of the high traffic area of the floor so everyone can watch you as you punch the bag; 3) there are too many muscle heads.

What I found funny was how people would watch me work out on the bag, and then they'd see me look at them watching and break out into a mimicry of muay thai or boxing, hitting the air - for me to view and assess, I guess.  

It was rather funny.  Again, I stop to rest, look away from the bag and there is another dude watching.  Our eyes meet and then he breaks out into this martial arts song and dance number - sneaky glances here and there to make sure I'm still looking his way.  The minute they do this, I immediately turn the other way.  Why give them the satisfaction?

I wonder why people do this?  Is it to quietly let me know we are fellow martial artists?  Is it to show off?  I'd much rather have them talk to me and ask about my training background rather than put up with these juvenile antics in the background.  Half of them are all posers anyway, displaying improper and ineffective technique.

I just want my gym to fix its bag quickly.  That set up was great.  Tucked in a corner where people traffic is lowest on the floor.  I can happily pound that bag for hours without anyone seeing me.  Easier to focus when there are no distractions from wannabe Jean Claude Van Dammes.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

A Shock of a Lifetime

This past weekend, I was at a life-time friend's place for a bbq dinner.
I've known him forever, and his wife for over 17 years. 

I've always heard the adage that you never really truly know someone ...I thought I knew my buddy's wife well...how wrong I was.  Well, Sunday was a night of shock for me.

I am sitting there watching television and chatting with the buddy's wife when she gets up grabs a nail clipper, walks over to the kitchen sink and starts to cut her nails over the kitchen sink!!!!!!  Talk about Shock and Awe.

My mind processed what I saw in this order:
1) Shocked/frozen in horror
2) A frantic attempt to rationalize this behaviour
3) An even more frantic attempt to remember all the past foods consumed in her kitchen to identify any strange bits I may have spit out and dismissed as a "fish bone" or "chicken bone".

Am I overreacting here?  I think anytime you are cutting off growing body parts/grooming, you should do so in the washroom - bathroom, for you Americans out there. 

I do believe she truly couldn't understand why I was so aghast. 
Next time, to help her understand, I'll bring my triple blade razor and do some 'manscaping' of my testes at her Kitchen sink.  Let's see if that hits the point home.

Monday, May 3, 2010

Asia is Corrupt - Korea is No Exception, Regretfully.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/04/26/technology/26samsung.html

It's so sad.

Matt Durant Toronto Aritst

I am not an artist.
I cannot claim to know art.
All I am capable of is to view, listen, touch, smell and taste with an open mind.

Sometimes, I am confused by what artists show me.

However, there are moments when I view someone's work and I just get it.
Matt Durant is one such artist.  Check him out.  I hope you guys enjoy his stuff as much as I do.

http://www.mattdurant.com/

2010 Contact Photography Festival

It's here.  I missed it last year and the year before that, but this year, I'll be checking it out.
May 1 - 31, 2010.  For those of you interested, check it out:  http://scotiabankcontactphoto.com/

American Cars vs. Japanese Cars

There was a time when the world envied the American big three car manufacturers:  Chrysler, Ford, and GM.  These were awe-inspiring times when little boys were fascinated with the beauty of American steel.  Classic cars from the 50s, 60s, 70s...wow.  During this time, to state that Americans made the best production cars in the world would not have been totally untrue.  And in this same period, it would not be incorrect to say that the Japanese made ridiculously cheap cars that couldn't hold a candle to American quality and value.  In addition to being excellent on gas (Japanese cars in this era) they were great at eliciting a chuckle on the streets - trust me, I remember because my friends and I were always teasing another friend whenever he picked us up in his tiny Honda Civic in the early 80s.  No boy fell in love with Japanese cars in the 50s, 60s, or 70s.  So, to recap, here we have the big three getting fat and rich, living it large in the three decades of their rule - and rightfully so!  At that time, who would have given any Japanese manufacturer a chance?  Right?

Well, it seems the big three three forgot about the story of the hare and the tortoise.  And they paid dearly for this slip, starting in the 80s.  In 1988, we purchased a Ford Taurus GL.  It was the biggest mistake ever.  Literally driving off the lot, three problems were detected - the headrest of the front passenger seat wouldn't stay up, I can't recall the others but they were minor headaches.  As the years went on, the power locks went prematurely, the engine had major issues that required $200-$400 to repair at least three times that I could remember.  The transmission then went and we had to have it rebuilt.  The power windows on the passenger side stopped working, the rear defog broke, and the list goes on with smaller more minor stuff.  It seems it wasn't just my ford, because I started to hear jokes circulate about what "FORD" stood for.  The punchline being:  Fix Or Repair Daily/Found On Road Dead.  The lemon-aid guide printed clearly that the Ford Taurus '88 was one of many vehicles people should NOT buy.  When I stared at this list, I noticed almost all the cars on there were American.  At the same time, in the eighties, the Japanese started to rise.  They started to gain a reputation for high quality in addition to fuel efficiency.  But, people were still hesitant because the cars were smaller and didn't feel as heavy and sturdy, leading many to believe they were not as safe as American cars.

After this point, the tables were turned and through the 90s til now, we saw Toyota whiz past the big three and saw the stock values of the American three plummet.  Government bail outs were discussed.  Pontiac, a brand with rich history in racing and in production is now no more.  Oh, how the mighty have fallen!
Toyota is going through a stumbling block but will, in the end, still maintain it's number one status for some time.

Now, the reputation of Japanese cars are quite the opposite of what was in the past when they were producing dinky Hondas for budget strapped students.  It is the Americans who suffer from the "cheap" moniker...and might I add, deservedly so.  Yup, I said it.  It had to be said.  What happened to American car companies they did to themselves by producing - mostly - ugly vehicles that broke and ate up people's time and money during the 80s.  What was so hard to understand about what customers wanted?  They wanted value - a car they could proudly drive that wouldn't burden the family budget or waste everyone's time by sitting in the garage getting fixed.  Give the American car makers credit, they tried with the Ford Taurus and it made an impact, it really did.  Iacocca brought in the three cab-forward designs in the LH cars.  Great concepts.  But so what?  None of these cars were reliable - contrary to Ford's moniker "Quality is Job 1".  Who care if you have a great looking car if you can't depend on it to work when you need it?  They did it to themselves.

Then a funny thing happened.  Some executive with power finally got it.  They started to make visually interesting - if not stunning cars for the average person with an average income to buy.  A car that they could be proud of driving.  A car that gave value in terms of what options were available and in terms of economy.  And people started paying attention.  People started to notice they were finally understanding "ugly" is not hip - unless it's a Subaru WRX, but I digress.  Slowly, we are seeing the transition NOW in both GM and Ford.  Not so much Chrysler, I'm afraid.  But it's happening.

Yes, I still believe the American car companies need to play catch up.  But historically, it wasn't too long ago, no one gave the Japanese a chance at all!  So for any one person to write off the American big three, they should do so with caution.  History has shown, as well as the story of the hare and tortoise, that in the real world, the tortoise can prevail.

Personally, after my Ford nightmare, I will never buy a Ford again.  And although I'll admit, they have great designs and I give them credit for bouncing back, they lost me a long time ago.  GM I wish you the best of luck, Toyota and Honda, thank you for setting an example and slapping sense into these stupid American CEOs of the big three.

For now, I remain a loyal import buyer - Lexus, Subaru, Honda.  If, however, GM proves to me that its cars are still around on the streets 5+ years from now, and in good condition, then perhaps, I may be swayed...but only time will tell.