Sad Movies, heatbreaking songs

I love heartbreaking songs.  Don't ask me why.  I am one of the millions of people out there who make ballad artists rich by demanding airtime for their love songs.  As much as I love listening to heartbreaking love songs from all cultures, I cannot watch sad movies.

Something about sad movies give me a mild case of anxiety.  I'm still trying to figure this out but I don't like to watch sad movies because it makes me feel more anxious as opposed to sad.  Weird, eh?

There are some great sad films out there.  I tried to watch one that all critics have recommended as the best war movie ever called: "The Grave of the Fireflies", and I failed miserably.  Fifteen minutes into the film and I stopped it.  I sensed the sadness coming and I couldn't deal with it...so yea, I turned it off.

Now, while surfing, I just came across another one that people keep saying is soooo heart-wrenching called "Crying for love in the centre of the world".  This goes by another title, "Socretes in Love" and it's originally a manga.  Apparently, it's devastatingly sad.  One reviewer off www.imdb.com wrote:

Makes grown men cry, 24 November 2005

Author: turbozed from milpitas, california

The recent trend towards more "serious" drama and the influx melodramatic korean dramas replacing the more light-hearted Japanese style, a crazy tear-jerker was bound to hit the Japanese airwaves. This drama will make even a cold-hearted person with ice water in their veins tear up. The formula is simple, really: Show innocent high school kids falling in love and dealing with happiness, love, and loss. The reason this formula has and will always work is because everyone has an affinity for the purity and idealistic quality of adolescent love. I imagine that there will be a few out there who will say that the "tragedy" aspect of the drama is pandering for sympathy. True, it seems like there are a lot Asian dramas out there in which cute, bright-eyed kids are stricken with some terminal disease (leukemia, brain cancer, acid reflux, etc.). The brilliance of Sekai no Chuushin is the presentation of this (maybe overdone) subject. Like almost everything, a measure of quality involves considering details. Sekai no Chuushin sets aside screen time in order to throw in subtle instances of humanity in order to generate a foundation for us to care for the characters before hitting us with one of the crazy, dramatic moments. Personally, I felt the beginning episodes (before we're hit with bad news about Aki) were the best ones. The acting was outstanding for a Japanese drama and the whole series was well-cast (the older Saku could've been a little more likable though). Special honors go to Takayuki Yamada for his portrayal of 17-year-old Saku. Yamada has to be one of the best dramatic actors in Japan. Overall, this is one of the best dramas to come out of Japan.

 I love Haruka Ayase so I really want to watch it but the freaking youtube trailers I've seen causes a bit of anxiety...it looks really sad.  Why?  Why must I be so sensitive to sad movies?  For those who enjoy sad films, please watch these two Japanese movies and let me know your reviews.